Perihal Curhat dan Justifikasi.

Jangan mengadili saya dari kata-kata saya sampai Anda mendengar keseluruhan kalimat saya dan mencoba berpikir lebih sedikit terbuka.

Saya bukan orang yang pandai mengungkapkan diri dan isi pikiran saya. Saya sering terjebak dalam pilihan kata yang salah. Tapi, lebih sering lagi terjebak dalam penilaian prematur yang salah hanya karena orang lain tidak mau menunggu saya menyelesaikan seluruh cerita saya.

Oh, and it does break my heart when people judge me before i get my words finished. Why don’t people shut up and listen, or at least, makes wrong judgement but give me a break to continue my words instead of stopping me with your judgement and not giving me chance to finished the whole story.

I remember my best friend once said, “No matter how awful it is, as bestfriend, we don’t have right to judge your bestfriend’s story about their problems or thoughts. If you do judge them, keep that only in your mind, there is no need to tell them what you think about them.”

We were still in high school when she said that.